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Why Letting Kids Lose Matters & 2 Parenting Shifts I'm Making

Episode 18

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Today, we’ll dive into understanding the true value of winning and losing, especially as it relates to raising children and personal growth. As someone who’s always been fiercely competitive, I found myself unsettled with my children’s losses in their various sports and activities. This episode explores how I shifted my mindset to see the true value in losing, and how this change has impacted both my life and my kids' lives positively. If you’re a parent or just someone looking to reframe your thoughts on competition, this episode is for you


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In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • 0:45: You may not have know this about me, but I am extremely competitive

  • 8:35: How my views on competition have evolved over time.

  • 9:39: The impact of parents' words and attitudes on kids’ sports performance.

  • 12:10: Recognizing the “cloud” of negativity and the importance of positive reinforcement.

  • 13:56: Focusing on raising resilient and adaptable adults rather than just winners.

  • 17:35: How losing can teach more valuable lessons than winning.

  • 20:05: If you found this content helpful, I’d love to hear from you. Leave a review, contact me on my website or on social media, and rate and subscribe to the podcast.


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